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60 Minutes

Mindfulness

September 7, 2015 by fpdorchak

This past weekend I saw a 60 Minutes spot on the current movement of The Supremely Stressed to gain a more “mindful” approach to their lives. To forgo their electronic leashes and all the stress that accompanies today’s lives for their own thoughts and presence-of-mind. Peacefulness.

I find this interesting on many levels.

If you go to the above link, you’ll find you’ll be immediately pummeled by a loud and frigging obnoxious commercial for 30 annoying seconds. Then the 60 Minute spot starts and after mere seconds you are again redirected into the same fricking annoying soul-sucking commercial for another 30 seconds! At least my viewing of it was. I couldn’t X-out of that damned video fast enough.

For real, CBS? Did you not watch your own spot on “Mindfulness”?

My own stress level at the launching of that commercial shot through the roof.

A curious point brought up in the segment was that those creating, marketing, and promoting the very things that lead to elevated stress levels—the iPads, the cell phones, the very technology being eschewed in this retreat—are those being schooled in this new movement.

The condensed version of the 60 Minute segment is that one focuses on the present.

Does not multitask.

Learns meditation.

Becomes comfortable with their own thoughts.

There are various methods for doing all of the above (e.g., focusing on one’s own breathing), but what I wanted to get into was not the mechanics of it all, but that it is so cool that people are really “getting it” that we need to modify our behavior. That doing things like this makes one calmer, more open to listening, cooperating with each other, and that one becomes nicer.

I’m far from perfect, but for most of my life I’ve tried to live by these principles…but, admittedly, it’s not easy in today’s world. It’s like the proverbial Chinese Water Torture…when you constantly get pinged by anything—even the most calmest of us— eventually it’s easy to, well, snap. There are so many different directions I could go with breaking the whys and wherefores out…but, again, that’s not what I wanted to do, here. I just wanted to bring out the movement. To show that this retreat and other methods out there are showing us that there is a better way to live our lives and to hopefully plant a seed in those out there reading this to find your own way to a calmer path in your own lives.

You don’t need to have a bigger and better cell phone. That promotion at the expense of your happiness.

Try this…I dare you:

Sit down to eat any meal—at home—all by yourself. No distractions. No conversation. No music. Silence. Just you and your food. In a quiet location.

You might be surprised at how calming and enjoyable you find it.

Filed Under: Health, Metaphysical, Technology, To Be Human, Writing Tagged With: 60 Minutes, Meditation, metaphysics, Mindfulness, stress

We Need To Care

March 12, 2014 by fpdorchak

By The Onion Router (Tor) Project, Naval Research Laboratory, US Department of Defense, Washington DC [Public domain], via Wikimedia Commons
By The Onion Router (Tor) Project, Naval Research Laboratory, US Department of Defense, Washington DC [Public domain], via Wikimedia Commons
I recently got involved in an online thread, when I asked about how to leave the Amazon.com contest. It was an interesting conversation, but what kinda disturbed me was how the money was the big motivator in the decision to partake in such contests at the expense of rights. Then, I watched a 60 Minutes piece about data mining. See this link for privacy protection information. I’m not naïve about data mining, but I was definitely raising my eyebrow about the extent of data mining. How is any of that even remotely legal, what with all the protection-of-privacy decrees we have out there? With all our indignance over domestic spying? If we get all ruffled over our own government agencies directing their spying efforts on ourselves, how to do we even remotely allowed commercial spying on ourselves?

There is so much to go into, here, on this subject, but the point I want to narrow down to is that we need to care what we sign away for our rights, for our toys. I read all those pages of terms before I get any app…and have dumped some apps because I didn’t like the terms. But does this even really matter, given the indecent lengths to which commercial companies are mining all of our data and actively selling it to other companies? Data as personal as what diseases you have, your sexual orientation, whether or not you use drugs (and how much), and what web sites you visit, and for how long?

It is also not made any easier by companies increasingly doing more and more business online, asking extremely and increasingly more personal questions online that are becoming mandatory before you even use their online functions. Even now, we are losing large leaps of privacy in the name of ease-of-use and accessibility.

Many argue it’s an inevitability. We can’t win.

I’ve asked a handful of people about this kind of thing off and on over the past few years, and I’ve received a disturbing amount of “I don’t care.”

Good Lord, that scares the crap out of me!

You do not care that your personal rights-to-privacy are quickly eroding, just so you can tweet you’re taking a shit at a Pink concert?

You just want to take the money and run, and not care how a novel your poured your heart and soul into will be treated forevermore in the future?

Have we become so shortsighted a race in the  name of the goddamned Internet? Instant gratification, where everyone’s a superstar on Twitter?

There is so much good about the advancement of technology and the creation of computers, but I guarantee you will regret it sometime in your future. You will. You will regret you did not take better control of what you let go in the frenzied grab of the next useless toy and app you installed on that toy, and it will be far too late.

But there are agencies out there fighting this uphill battle, and I applaud them. They realize the logical conclusion to all this insanity. Just because you can do something, does not mean you should. Just because you use the Internet does not mean others out there are granted the inherent right to snoop in on you. To market what they mine to others because it better suits them in their marketing (i.e., they can make more money off of you—the almighty friggin profit-driven society).

Again, there is so much to say on this topic, but I just want to bring it before you now, and implore you to pay attention to what you’re doing. Don’t give away your freedoms. Say NO. Encourage others to do the same. And it doesn’t matter what’s already out there. It’s never to late to stop, to say No, and attempt to put an end to this heinous use power.

We need to care.

Filed Under: Technology, To Be Human Tagged With: 60 Minutes, Data mining, Personal freedom, Privacy, Rights Grab, We Need To Care.

Amazon.com Against the World!

December 3, 2013 by fpdorchak

I watched a recent interview on 60 Minutes with Jeff Bezos, of Amazon.com fame, and it was most interesting. Once again, it showed the forward thinking aspect of the Amazon.com Mindset.

No wonder traditional businesses hate them!

Why?

Because traditional businesses are stuck in antiquated mindsets, that’s why. Plain and simple! I don’t agree with everything Amazon does, but I do agree with how they’re thinking outside the box. How they’re customer-centric. How they’re delaying immediate gratification. Good Lord, if other businesses applied the same or similar mindsets, it’d be a far different (and hopefully better!) world!

Now, do I really know what’s in the heart of Mr. Bezos? Not really, all I can see is what’s presented. But, if actions speak louder than words, what we see is what we’re getting. Sure, news is slanted toward whoever’s paying the bills, but we see, everyday, how Amazon operates, and they operate in a way traditional businesses do not operate and therefore cannot understand, because traditional businesses are driven purely by and for profit and immediate gratification at the expense (pardon the pun) of the customer.

Do I want drones cluttering our airspace and depositing packages at our homes? No, I don’t. It’s just more clutter. Above our heads. They claim they want a 30-minute fulfillment ability, and these drones could very well deliver that…but not before 2015. So, would you have to be right there to collect your delivery? Is that the plan? If not, imagine this…people-of-ill-repute seeing these drones…following them to your home…and stealing your goods.

Okay, but it is cool on a Science Fiction level…but I still cringe at the thought of the air above our heads cluttered with low flying drones everywhere! Bird strikes! Small aircraft! Maybe getting fired upon by military drones from above, oh my!

Well, fact of the matter is…though not every idea at Amazon meets with success…successes at Amazon do seem to be more frequent than not. They are thinking outside the box and attempt to do what stodgy, traditional businesses seem unable to do: reimagine.

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Filed Under: Leisure, Technology, To Be Human Tagged With: 60 Minutes, Amazon, Amazon.com, Business, CBS, Distribution center, Jeff Bezos

Can You? Can You REALLY?

July 20, 2012 by fpdorchak

In the September 2012 issue of Writer’s Digest, there’s a great 5-Minute Memoir (page 12), by Candy Schulman about her experience trying to wrangle an interview out of Andy Rooney. And in true, inimitable Andy Rooney fashion, he delivered what I think is a great line.

“Where do I get my ideas? Well, you damn well sit down and decide to have an idea.”

So, can you handle the truth?

Can you?

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Filed Under: Uncategorized, Writing Tagged With: 5-Minute Memoir, 60 Minutes, Andy Rooney, Candy Schulman, Ideas, Writers Digest

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